Delta Recovery Relapse Prevention
Type One – The Reformer
Key Traits: Principled, purposeful, self-controlled, responsible, honest, detail-oriented
Challenges: Resentful, rigid, judgmental, perfectionistic, impatient
- Basic Fear – Being bad, evil, corrupt, defective
- Distorted Desire / Passion – My anger leads to chronic resentment over imperfection in myself and others.
- Leaden Rule – I point out evil, corruption and defectiveness in others to avoid feeling it in myself
- Manipulation Technique – Correct and “improve” others; insist they share my standards
- Red-Flag Fear – Realizing my ideals are actually wrong or counter-productive
- Wake-Up Call – Feeling a personal obligation to fix everything and everyone myself
- Lost Childhood Message – “You are good.”
- Core Identification & Self-Image – “I am accurate, thorough, diligent and in a position to judge.”
- Desire: maintain the image of the morally upright judge.
- Invitation to Abundance – I want to live for a Higher Purpose and trust the larger plan
- Healing Attitude – “Maybe others are right… maybe I have done all that can be done.”