Delta Recovery Relapse Prevention
Type Six – The Loyalist
Phase 1: Return of Denial – Inability to recognize and honestly communicate thoughts/feelings
- “Everyone says recovery is going well, so I shouldn’t worry about these doubts.”
- “These anxious thoughts are probably just my normal overthinking.”
- “If I voice these concerns, people might think I’m not committed to recovery.”
Phase 2: Avoidance and Defensive Behavior – Avoiding anything that triggers uncomfortable emotions
- “My sponsor says I’m doing well, so I don’t need to question anything.”
- “These other people in recovery seem less committed to following the program correctly.”
- “If I start doubting my recovery, it will just create problems where none exist.”
Phase 3: Crisis Building – Life problems accumulate due to denial and isolation
- “These problems prove that recovery is more dangerous than I thought.”
- “I need to find the right authority or expert who can tell me what to do.”
- “Everything feels uncertain, and I don’t trust my own judgment about ways to fix it.”
Phase 4: Immobilization – Complete inability to initiate action, controlled by circumstances
- “I can’t make decisions because I don’t know who or what to trust anymore.”
- “If only I had clear guidance from a reliable authority, I could move forward.”
- “I’m anxious about making the wrong choice and ruining everything. It’s paralyzing.”
Phase 5: Confusion and Overreaction – Impaired thinking and emotional volatility
- “Everything feels dangerous and unpredictable, and it’s making me panic.”
- “I can’t think straight because threats seem to be coming from everywhere.”
- “People give conflicting advice and I don’t know who to trust anymore.”
Phase 6: Depression – Severe mood disruption affecting normal functioning
- “Recovery has failed and I have no support system left to trust.”
- “Everything is falling apart and there’s no safe place left in the world.”
- “I’m completely abandoned and vulnerable with no one to protect me.”
Phase 7: Behavioral Loss of Control – Inability to maintain recovery behaviors
- “I can’t trust any of these people or programs to actually help me.”
- “I don’t care about following advice when everyone says different things.”
- “Why should I commit to anything when every authority disappoints me?”
Phase 8: Recognition of Loss of Control – Denial breaks, awareness of powerlessness emerges
- “Everyone has abandoned me, and I have no support left.”
- “Maybe substances would help me feel secure and calm again.”
- “I’m lying about being fine when I’m actually terrified and completely alone.”
Phase 9: Option Reduction – Only three perceived options: insanity, suicide, or substance use
- “I’m terrified and angry that everyone has betrayed and abandoned me.”
- “The only options left are going insane, suicide, or using to feel safe again.”
- “I can’t trust anyone in recovery because they all eventually let me down.”
Phase 10: Acute Relapse Period – Complete functional breakdown
- “I can’t handle the anxiety, and everything feels like a threat.”
- “I’m so exhausted from constantly worrying that I can’t function like a normal person.”
- “Maybe substances would help me feel safe and calm again.”
Phase 11: Return to Active Addiction – Actual resumption of substance use
- “I’ll use carefully according to expert advice about controlled drinking/using.”
- “If authorities say some people can moderate, maybe I can follow those guidelines.”
- “This supervised approach to use will help me feel more secure about recovery.”