Delta Recovery Relapse Prevention
Type Two – The Helper
Key Traits: Cheerful, kind, approachable, warm, gentle, caring, patient, loyal
Challenges: Can be superficial in kindness, exploitative, enabling, neglectful of own needs
- Basic Fear – Being unwanted and unloved for who I am.
- Distorted Desire / Passion – My pride turns into self-importance masked as self-sacrifice
- Leaden Rule – I make others feel unworthy of my love or attention
- Manipulation Technique – I use flattery and “over-help” others to create dependency
- Red-Flag Fear – Driving friends and loved ones away
- Wake-Up Call – Feeling compelled to do more for others to win them over
- Lost Childhood Message – “You are wanted.”
- Core Identification & Self-Image – “I am helpful, caring, indispensable.”
- Desire: remain needed and appreciated
- Invitation to Abundance – Nurture myself and others from genuine fullness
- Healing Attitude – “Maybe I could let someone else do this… maybe I could do something good for myself.”